I don’t love my husband anymore

Dear Judy,

I am now at a point to seek help.  I have been married for eight years and we have a daughter aged 7.  I think I don’t love my husband any more but I don’t have the courage to tell him.  We came to this country from Poland to make a better life for ourselves but he is always working. He does love us and he wants money for us to have a better life but in the meantime, because he is never here, I no longer love him. He gets up early and comes home late and even though he does love me, he doesn’t know how to be a friend or a partner.  I feel like a single parent and I am lonely. I have had to try to make my own friends. Sometimes he comes to meet them on a Sunday afternoon but he is so tired he falls asleep. I am young and feel like my life is passing me by. I cry a lot. I don’t want to hurt him but I feel like I can’t carry on like this any more.

Bella